I grieve again

The update I received today from the agency said the following:

I checked with [our in-country coordinator] on your case yesterday (each week actually on Thursdays I do). He is really trying to find same-sex siblings for you in the age range you want. Additionally all the paperwork has to be correct on them to legalize them as orphans ( a big deal right, always, with American Embassy). He appreciates your patience and knows that the right kids will come your way [smiley face]. Have a super weekend.

I guess the children I thought they had identified for us didn't exist or were not able to pass paperwork muster. It feels like another faceless loss. I'm sad.